Codependent Not … by Alice B. Clagett

Filmed on 20 August 2018

Dear Ones,

Here is a video with an affirmation or ‘warding thought’ to prevent codependence in the case of people who are trying to cling to you, who are addicts. There is a Summary after the video ..

VIDEO BY ALICE

SUMMARY OF THE VIDEO

Hello, Dear Ones, It’s Alice. I Am of the Stars.

I have come across a warding thought to prevent codependence in the case of addiction, and in the case of people who are trying to cling to you, who are addicts. They say things in their subconscious minds like: Why does she not love me more than anything? Why does she not love me more than anything? … or … God, I love you. God, I love you. God, I love you. Like that, over and over again, right?

But what they want is for the other person to feel sympathetic to them. They want a feeling of sympathy, right? … to support themselves in their addiction.

So the thing is to say this, or something like this, at the speed of your own heartbeat … It goes like this: Oh poor, poor me. Won’t you have pity on me? Oh poor, poor me. Don’t you feel sorry for me? Like that.

This works almost immediately, but I would keep up for a little time, and then go on to your own mantra, like: I am I. I am One. I love me. And like that, just to cure any feeling of excess empathy. Right? To gain a strong sense of self-esteem, and so forth.

Image: “Leo Carrillo State Park 2,” by Alice B. Clagett, 17 August 2014, CC BY-SA 4.0

Image: “Leo Carrillo State Park 2,” by Alice B. Clagett, 17 August 2014, CC BY-SA 4.0

Image: “Leo Carrillo State Park 6,” by Alice B. Clagett, 17 August 2014, CC BY-SA 4.0

Image: “Leo Carrillo State Park 6,” by Alice B. Clagett, 17 August 2014, CC BY-SA 4.0

Image: “Leo Carrillo State Park 20,” by Alice B. Clagett, 17 August 2014, CC BY-SA 4.

Image: “Leo Carrillo State Park 20,” by Alice B. Clagett, 17 August 2014, CC BY-SA 4.0

In love, light and joy,
I Am of the Stars
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addiction, addict, codependence, empathy, sympathy, pitiable, self-esteem, health, healing, psychology, psychiatry, spells, affirmations,

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